Tinder is a wonderful dating app for the new generation. Unfortunately, because of the popularity of the app, it is also a big place for a lot of people to go to cheat. Hundreds, if not thousands of women have turned to the internet after they have found their husbands on Tinder. Boyfriends have also been found on Tinder.
The question is: what do you do if you find your husband on Tinder? We are going to take a look at the answer to this question with some very easy tips.
Your first reaction to finding your significant other on Tinder is going to be to be mad and upset. Reacting this way can be very bad though, with a lot of negative consequences. First and foremost, if you over react to the extreme, you could end up in jail. Anything you do after finding out that your husband is cheating on you can be used in a divorce and keeping that in mind is important.
To help calm yourself down, try some breathing exercises. Deep, calming breaths work for most people.
Browse through the profile and read the information he provided. Also look at all of the photos. Tinder has been around long enough now that there is always the chance that you have stumbled upon his old account. He may not have deactivated it when he met you. Sadly, there is no longer a way to see when a user was last active. You will have to do the detective work and determine from the profile how old it is.
Jumping to conclusions can lead to negative situations. Wait for a moment when you both have some time to talk and sit your husband down. Be blunt and upfront about the profile so that you can have an honest conversation. Don't rush the conversation and encourage him to be upfront.
Be prepared for him to ask you how you found the profile in the first place. This isn't to be the focus of the conversation but if you have a response prepared it will cut off getting sidetracked.
There are two main reasons that a man might go on Tinder when he is in a relationship. The first one is that he is not getting what he wants. Everyone has their own desires and if they aren't meant, it is human nature to try and meet them. The second reason is a lack of communication. Sometimes couples are too embarrassed, shy, or otherwise won't talk about things that could fix a marriage. Simply communicating can solve both of these issues.
It will take time to mend a marriage but it is possible if that is the route that you are looking to go.
Ultimately the decision on what to do will be up to you. Most people would advise you that you should never give up on a marriage. You loved each other at one point so there must be something there to recover. However, that being said, there are people who cheat and won't stop.
Determining whether your partner will stop cheating will be up to you and you alone. Going through a divorce is always an option but it is costly and can take a while.
Finding your husband on Tinder will upset you but knowing what to do can make the process easier and take away some of the pain. Remember, the most important thing is to remain as calm as possible in a difficult situation. You can get passed an instance of cheat and you can even get over it if you choose to.