Dating is hard and there are rules that you have to learn for experience. When you are looking to date a married woman, you have to know those rules before you start dating. To help you with this, we are going to highlight some of the most important rules. The rules that you should know before even approaching a married woman.
Keep reading to learn the rules for dating a married woman.
The number one rule is that you both need to talk with each other. Don't just assume that you know what both parties want. By talking with each other you can establish the rules that we don't have time to highlight and learn what each other are looking for. Without communication, dating anyone is extremely hard.
An important question to ask the woman is if her husband knows about the relationship. This will help you to understand some of the obvious rules about what you can and can't do.
You never want to meet her at her house. No matter how exciting it sounds to hook up at her house while her husband is out, this can lead to bad happenings. Going to her house is also disrespectful to the husband unless he is aware of the situation and agrees. Even then, make sure it is okay to go to her house.
Before even going to pick her up at her house make sure that it is okay. Never show up at her house uninvited.
A general rule of thumb when dating a married woman is that you don't give each other gifts. Gifts have a chance to backfire on her. If she does say that you can get her gifts, make sure that you don't get her anything that is personalized. Avoiding jewelry is also a good idea.
Whenever either of you go to pay for something while together you should use cash. This prevents there from being any credit card (or debit card) trails back to your dates. Unless there is some outstanding need for a receipt, destroy them after.
You want to avoid any place that your married woman partner goes to with her husband. This will prevent any kind of interaction between you and her husband. The more her husband sees you, the more likely he is to notice that he keeps seeing the same person over and over again.
The same rule applies when you are looking for places to go to on your dates. Don't pick places that her husband is likely to be. Also avoid places that they like to go to when together. This helps to avoid wait staff from noticing the difference in men. It also prevents her from feeling guilty when she is out with her husband.
People who help you when you are on dates, such as waiters and hotel staff, have the potential to ruin her life. If her life gets ruined, you won't just feel bad but you could also catch some of the blow back. Tipping these staff well will help to ensure that they remember you in a good way. A good image of you in their minds means that they aren't likely to talk about you to anyone.
Take these rules into mind and you will have a more successful relationship with a married woman. You will enjoy yourself and so will she. At the same time, you will both be able to keep your other lives. Something that is obviously important to her or she wouldn't still be married.